tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6717442146224443168.post3625350622726286324..comments2023-07-18T15:57:01.265+04:00Comments on The Faria Five: Why does life feel like High School?Connie Fariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13291194043588401088noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6717442146224443168.post-16381545310754534872010-05-26T09:58:20.704+04:002010-05-26T09:58:20.704+04:00That's a really good point about what bothers ...That's a really good point about what bothers me are the insults people cast about things I'm insecure about in myself. Huh.Connie Fariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13291194043588401088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6717442146224443168.post-33571864688850711372010-05-24T21:51:15.119+04:002010-05-24T21:51:15.119+04:00I have three thoughts:
1) I read your blog. I l...I have three thoughts:<br /><br />1) I read your blog. I like your thoughts that are "out there" (...and the down to earth ones, too--ha!)<br /><br />2) Schools have no role in teaching about interpersonal relationships. There's so much too that topic that many families would hit the roof if schools tried to teach their children "values" and "morals." Families and parents should teach that, but unfortunately, many don't and think it's just something that comes naturally. It seems like cattiness comes more naturally.<br /><br />3) That beign said, I had a psychology teacher in community college teach that people only insult and belittle other people if they are insecure about that in themselves. And, if someone is trying to insult or belittle you and it bothers you (as opposed to rolls off your back), then you're insecure about that in yourself. Makes sense and fits with what you said--you knew you were speaking loudly, and were self-conscious of it (that's why you stopped when they came in). <br /><br />It would be nice though if more people could just let other people be. We are all different, and it just adds to the variety in life. makes it much more interesting.Melinda Coolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12601522590141219615noreply@blogger.com